As i drove back home trying to manipulate my way amidst other road users on the characteristically trafffic plagued lagos road, my co-passangers, in a relaxed mood ,not under the kind of stress that enveloped me got into a discussion.
Their choice of topic is understandbly contemporary given the fever associated with the fourtheenth day of februaries.It was the third day after!
I dont believe love exist jor, its so Overrated! Another party disagreed and the discussion began
I didnt join in the discussion.I cant exactly tell why.Perhaps i wanted to contend with the complexities that comes with driving in traffic where you have ten lanes on a road designed for three.Ever experienced one?
Perhaps i honestly couldnt provide an emphatic position on the subject matter.More like the latter.
Until now, my position is that love does not exist.I cant say that anymore.Dont ask if am in love.
Love is difficult to define.How do you avoid confusing it with infatuation or lust? Philosophers and psychologists have both attempted to define love.'Me myself' have attempted to define love.
I need definitions of love..
Here is a guideline as you attempt to define love.Define love by thinking of what it means to you.Be bold and write down the feelings and thoughts you have about love.
If love is what you feel when you crave to be in the warm embrace of the opposite gender, Let me know. If love is what you feel when you see a well endowed lady or a smashing fine dude, i wanna know.If it is what you feel when you see a rich/intelligent guy/babe.. e je kin mo.
Quite a number of things just make me feel love dont exist.Check this out? have you ever wondered why celebrities fall in love with fellow celebrities? i.e 9ice and tony payne, Jay Z and Beyounce, David and Victoria Beckham, Ashley cole and Ex wife, Wayne Bridge and Ex- wife.
Rich 'pikin' more often than not fall in love with co- rich pikin.The Turai daughters fell in love with serving governors.
In this regard, i am persuaded to conclude that Love is nothing but choices. Not some tender, affectionate, unexplainable feeling .....bla bla bla. We dont 'fall in love'. We 'choose-in-love'.
Maybe love once existed.
Good old days when a man without money can express his feelings( the butterflies) to a woman.
These days, its not just about a car. What type?
Its not just about having a house address? What kinda apartment we ta'kin bout?
Lovers desert each other in times of tribulation.Where is the love?
My friend has been chasing a lady for a while without success and upon securing a lucrative job, She 'fell in love'. Coincidence? coincidence my foot!
This is from a guys' view point.To allow for a balanced analysis, the 'weaker sex' are allowed to state instances where men have left them wondering if ever they had come across the word; love.
I am sure about one thing though, they would talk about men and their cheating ways. God help them if they do cuz am here to remind them of the popular cliche that says it takes two to tangle.Not so?
There is only one sure love though, the love of God.Asides that, oyo looooooooo wa o!
Admittedly, i could be wrong! am i confused? Perhaps.
I am in love! Have you ever said that? or someone once said that to you and you smiled..i might need your help.What exactly is love about?
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